In search of… the beauty of flaws with Elena D’Ambrogio

They say: lucky not to be perfect! What may seem like a catchphrase – and not too pleasant – is actually proven evidence that we are all unique and unrepeatable precisely because they are characteristic of our features, which include defects.

Flaws are not demons – as it is customary to believe in a compliant and homologated world – but our physical name and surname, as they are and remain so, to identify us. A bit like baptism, which, however, is being forced on us.

WITH self acceptance is one of the hardest things to achieve, so the most important thing is that you can actually talk about perfection. Because we are all perfect in our imperfection.

Of course, this, despite the fact that it is a sacred truth, is also an unpleasant truth, because we are all very good at living off paranoia, creating a lot of problems for ourselves.

Our real flaws are paranoia. Often dictated by personal insecurities, but also by clichés that change from generation to generation.

Without worrying too much about antiquity, women in the 1950s were beautiful and attractive, if a little soft. Even the man with the not-too-contoured belly was all “creanza”.

And if there were protruding ears, moles, or other features that even then were considered defects, then they certainly were not in the order of things for chagrin.

Yes, it’s up to us to see our flaw as a flaw or a uniqueness that makes us interesting. But the limit always makes us work on ourselves

, is an important motivational lever for not remaining attached to superficiality as the predominant focus of our more emotional side. Why worrying about something is better than worrying about it.

Naturally, a physical defect causes a feeling of shame, from which anxiety, sadness and a feeling of inferiority arise. And it’s not just a personal weakness. Fear is also the fear of judgment. Because criticism hurts, and today, thanks to social networks, this is the range of distribution. They start with a mobile phone—many mobile phones, in fact—and come right in like a punch in the gut.

“Defects” of stars

But the defect, as such, still depends on our perception, this is the real dilemma. So what are we to do? Perhaps pause for a moment defects that make stars unique and even more beautifulcan be great dead end Topics.

One could never think, for example, of correcting Barbra Streisand’s strabismus, so mesmerizing, almost an extra note in its sophisticated elegance. Or retouch Diastema of Brigitte Bardot and Madonnawhich makes their smile irresistible.

These celebrities were able to turn the imperfection of their teeth into a strong point of their personality.

Because this is so, someone calls them shortcomings, someone gives them simply as characteristics. In any case, it’s about details that make the face expressive.

Stars who have succeeded without giving any weight to the comments of the inevitable detractors know this well.

Listing VIPs who have also become iconic because of their imperfection.it is emphasized how exactly small defects make them special, characterizing the face and giving it individuality and Charm to strokes.

From Sarah Jessica Parker to Megan Fox

They have become a force for actress Sarah Jessica Parker, proud of his important nose. as it is Lady Gaga who is in his passage A star is borninfluenced the feeling of difficulty in a career when you are not accepted because of your appearance.

But we all agree that the star is not only born and shining, but also her success in fashion.

Also for Bianca Balti V protruding ears they never slowed down his career. The beautiful model doesn’t really shy away from casually wearing catchy earrings and peek-a-boo hairstyles.

In order not to draw attention to his imperfection – probably the only one he has – he prefers enhance her charming eyes

. And with such amazement, how are you distracted by the way she looks sideways?

In the early years of her career, beauty Kristin Stewart instead, he tended to cover his protruding ears with long hair and hairstyles that camouflaged their shape. But she also got a clean haircut of uncertainty, as well as a clean cut of her hair, making it very short, sassy and colorful, highlighting her ears, which no longer seem like a big deal.

Who always looked with charm Megan Fox because of his angelic looks, i don’t think he’ll change his mind if he ever notices his thumbs are shorter than usual. Because she, a star, is also a normal woman, with flaws that she cannot get rid of.

Even cosmetic surgery has its limits.. And this once again demonstrates that perfection is not synonymous with charm and sensuality.

Miriam Leone

Miriam Leone she says she was teased during her school days because of her thick eyebrows why was she named helium from Intense Stories.

It took him some time to accept himself, but what is certain is that he did.

But there are those who have never attached much importance to their shortcomings. Caroline Crescentini, she says about her dark circles that she doesn’t like them, but they are her beauty. In fact, she didn’t consider them a flaw until she became an actress because they asked her to intervene and eliminate them. But Karolina, like all her viewers, loves her face and her magnetic eyes, which are beautiful even in jewelry.

“I’ll still take it off, but only because the mouth is heavy and my makeup artist can’t widen it.”Instead, he announced Sonya Bruganelli about her mole above her upper lip.

Summing up, leeks don’t bother her. That’s why she didn’t take it off, and now, for makeup reasons, she probably will.

Of course, it’s not always easy to accept a face that isn’t exactly perfect, but I think it’s been that way for a lot of us.

Fortunately, beauty is something immediate, not amenable to any reasoning. Indeed, talking about it is also a bit of a betrayal, because it overtakes you, hits your senses, pierces you. Trying to put it into words can never be effective enough. It is difficult to describe because, as St. Thomas: “Beautiful is what you like when you see it”

. Simple.

We have no control over beauty, it is the beauty that has it on us. But then why climb on defects, causing them inconvenience?

Meanwhile, no one has advantages or disadvantages relative to perfection. We cannot choose it, it is the first dowry that comes to us at birth.

It is for this reason that it is a sin to mock the physical defects of others, and then we can only smile, with or without wide teeth, with or without protruding ears, with X-shaped legs, moles or something else.

Irony is always a winning weapon for driving out fools and ourselves. And stop spending so much time looking for that perfection that we already have, even with flaws that deserve a sweet smile and sometimes gratitude.

edited by Elena D’Ambrogio