Ness exhausted after family vacation: ‘You want to go back to work’

After hours of dreading and shutting down a bucolic house in the middle of the countryside, I spotted a vineyard at the top.I think your three fillo are Unable to enjoy, and iso xeráballe pain. Tensions increased. “Oh, last year, I want to go back to Barcelona and start workingwithout knowing what they want or don’t want to do with my pie,” he commented.

Child and adolescent psychologist and psychotherapist Elisa López explains that Júlia He didn’t address some fundamental issues during the holidays: Rest. “I have a feeling your kids are resisting your trip, or not fitting in with your plans. You’re on holiday trying to mediate and reconcile positions with others. It’s exhausting,” said the therapist sublimely, concluding yes: There are recipes for weary moms

not just trying to cut off some benefits.

“What’s the point of family travel if it’s not fun?”

Júlia March, three-year-old girl, aged 14, 16 and 21

“What’s the point of traveling as a family if they’re not having fun?’” lamented Julia, after a three-hour drive, Moher’s impressive film song arrived, and their children walked the road.

“You have no illusions. They told me it was exhausting to be there all day selling chairs and landscapes. The only way to show enthusiasm is to go to shops and restaurants. Or rest?zero interest,” Julia said regretfully, as she Not a single photo, two and five together During the holidays. “My fans would ‘take selfies’ and show up on social networks. But don’t tell them to take pictures with us. It’s impossible,” he explained.

Julia doesn’t know how to spend the next year’s vacation. Ask yourself, is it worth going through the same thing again? “i don’t go on vacation like this’, he recalls, still admitting he had to give up time with his family.

This happened to Julia, or to many children (also a country, but the mental burden fell on all Nelas / Nelas): they did not rest on holidays, because Free time is indeed more tiringthat is, working hours.

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For two children aged 5 and 7, Raquel Alonso also had a rough August. When her couple left Spain for work reasons, Raquel left Madrid to spend a few days with her friends at a non-Mediterranean campsite. “My two kids have been together for a while, but they’re at very different stages. The older one feels old and doesn’t want to fight the younger one, who is always looking for everything or something in between. Finally , they ended up arguing. The little guy beat the big guy. Eu i have to part and draw

But it works great. Because the lottery ends and starts again. It’s tiring. ”

“My kids ended up fighting and I had to separate and draw. It was exhausting”

Raquel Alonso, mother of two children aged 5 and 7

The situation gave Raquel “a horrible feeling of neglecting these two men.” “One wants to go out and play, and the other wants to stay at home.i can’t separate. These two pull on you and make me anxious. Also, the heat doesn’t help. Please tell us we don’t have to abuse our screens, but, let’s be honest, what do we do? he sighed.

For many days, Xu Dongdong watched his two sons quarreling non-stop, thinking: “How did we get here? You educated really well.”

Psychologist López, defeito, let me know In late August and September, our psych office was shot at at the request of professional help. “Intense coexistence fades away and conflict arises, especially for teenagers.”